It seems just as soon as I got used to writing 2009, it’s time to change to 2010! I’ve certainly been through a lot this year (myself and with my family) so I’m ready to look at 2010 with some hope for change! I know that my only true hope comes from the love and faithfulness of Jesus Christ who died for my sins! However, I am hoping that as I pray for wisdom on how to approach some small tangible things in our lives, I will glean a little extra hope on how to plan, prioritize and put into action changes that need to be made!
The first thing I really want to work on this year is my thought patterns. Last year was a very difficult year for me emotionally, to say the least. There are so many facets of why and what can be done, but ONE thing that I CAN do that will help is redirecting my thought patterns from negative to positive. It is so easy to think, “it feel so unfair my husband gets to attend a meeting at church while I stay home to feed the kids, bathe them, and then get them to bed–I’d like to attend and have some adult interaction too!” It’s harder to think, “I am so glad my husband has this opportunity because he doesn’t get a chance to see his church friends as much as I do and there are a couple of small projects I can get done after the kids go to bed and before he gets home so we can maybe watch a movie or play a game after he gets home!” So, goal number one is: To counter each negative thought with a positive thought!
The second thing I want to work on is completing projects. I LOVE projects. I love buying a pattern, material, thread, notions and DREAMING of the beautiful creation that waits; only to have all the above still sitting in my craft box six months later. This is a waste of money and space. The worst part? I keep doing it!! So, goal number two is: complete 1-2 attainable projects each month. I will not allow myself to buy materials for additional projects until started projects are completed!
The third thing I need to help on is not giving up! For example, I will start an exercise routine but when it just doesn’t work, I stop. I don’t try to figure out how to make it better or try something different. Hmmm, probably will need some accountability in this one! 🙂 So, goal number three is not give up on road blocks!
What about you? What are some of your New Years Resolutions?